Are you a number cruncher??
Whether it’s the number on the scales, number of calories you can eat, clothing size, your number out of 10 or macro’s, number crunching is probably the barrier between you and your goals. At both ends of the spectrum whether you’re primarily focusing to keep under a number or getting down to a number its placing a negative emphasis on your self-worth.
Don’t get this confused with goal
setting. Setting goals that are SMART; Specific, measurable, attainable,
realistic and time specific is important for keeping yourself accountable to
yourself but it’s when these become one dimensional we run into problems. After
all your health is 3D. You should be refocusing on multiple aspects and the
‘numbers’ are just one facet of this.
it is important to create strategies
(such as goals) to keep yourself accountable but it shouldn’t be controlling,
restrictive or singular. Clients are often concerned at fluctuations in both
their diet and training and subsequent number on the scale. If your goal is to
lose weight yes we want to work towards this but it needs to match your unique
life, meaning weight loss often comes in cycles. Every day, week, month comes
with new challenges meaning it isn’t possible to do the same thing every day therefore
we aren’t going to eat and train the same. Our health is similar to stocks we
need to look at trends. Your stock may not go up every day, it may drop 3
points today, stable tomorrow then go up again on Friday but over the month it
still heads up; you haven’t panicked and you have sold it off because it’s
useless after one bad day. This same principle applies to your health. You may
not necessarily lose weight every week but if we look at the it over the month
and there has been weight loss then that’s actually a successful month.
This principle applies to maintaining
our weight and losing weight. If you move the emphasis from the ‘number’ and
apply it to a variety of health markers you will start to create a positive
relationship with yourself, food and your image. The Important ones I focus on
are:
What are your Energy levels doing:
Quite frequently I see clients who have not lost weight after initiating
positive lifestyle changes but are feeling fantastic. Getting through the day
isn’t quite so challenging. Alternatively, I also see clients who control their
intake and weight so much that although they’re maintaining their weight or
calorie goal they feel lethargic, tired and exhausted. Holistic health is
feeling good inside and out, if you are feeling tired and energy levels have
dropped this is your body telling you something isn’t right, that there is a
deficit somewhere, most commonly it’s in the quality of food or the amount of
food.
Your anxiety associated with food
choices:
The reason I don’t often use calorie counting as weight management tool as
I see it as quiet pointless. Fresh foods (fruit, vegetables, meat, diary)
simply don’t often have nutritional labels or secondly I’ve never seen anyone
use them. You generally know if you’re making a good food decision without the validation
of a number. Chocolate is a not ideal food choice and vegetables are a great
choice (see you knew that without knowing the calories). Most commonly clients
use it as a way to compare 2 not ideal food choices and validate their decision
to have it. Hmm well these biscuits have half as many calories as those
chocolate ones so I’ll get those; “great healthy decision” by me. Additionally,
what does that number even mean. Most people have no idea how many calories they
should be eating a day so what are you comparing the label to. Healthy food
doesn’t necessarily mean low calorie. Yes an apple has less calories than a
bowel of ice-cream but we also need to look at the quality, quantity and
nutritional value. Half an avocado has approx. 1034kj the same as a mars bar but
is packed with healthy fats, protein, low sugar, vitamin and minerals not to
mention is double the weight (meaning more food for same calories).
How you look:
This doesn’t mean looking in the mirror “I look great in these pants” or
“why do I look terrible in everything” but looking at you skin tone,
fleshiness, whites of the eyes and gums. When you start to provide your body
with nutritionally jam packed foods your body will respond. Generally clients
report looking brighter, there skin tone is a warm and pinkish not grey, pink
tinge to their cheeks, less obvious wrinkles and their whites of eyes and gums
more natural colour. By overhauling your eating you can achieve an instant face
lift.
How your clothes fit:
The old muscle vs fat debate. 1kg of muscle is the exact same as 1kg fat
but its space is somewhat different. It’s like comparing apples to
marshmallows. By integrating exercise and strength training you activate and
develop more lean muscle which is responsible not only for movement and posture
but is where we burn stored fat. So although the scales stay the same you can
have gone down a belt size. For the same weight muscle takes up 20% less space
(who doesn’t love 20% off anything). This also breaks the myths that weight training
makes you big. Appropriate weight/strength training for your goals will
actually make you smaller and stronger.
My tips to end your days as a health accountant:
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Eat your diet rules: Stop over thinking it and listen to
your body. Eat when hungry, stop when full, drink water when thirsty, eat in
moderation and most importantly enjoy your food. Health is eating and training
not dieting and exercising. It should bring you happiness not grumpiness.
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Do it for yourself: If you are losing weight or staying
underweight so people notice, to make someone else happy (partner, parent or
friends) you are creating a negative space. The moment you don’t receive
validation from that person/people you negatively criticize yourself “must work
harder” or “what’s the point he/she didn’t notice” or “I’m still too big”. Yes
it’s nice to be complimented but make the change for you so the only person
your accountable to is yourself.
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Quality not quality: Instead of counting how many calories
count nutrients or colours. Nutrient dense food will not only make your body
run better but you’ll feel better by not over analysing every food choice. Look
at how the variety in whole food groups; try and achieve your 5 vegetables and
2 fruits, choose low GI products and complex carbs, whole foods and grains,
create a plant based approach (fruit/vegetable/salad with each meal).
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Take life daily not weekly/monthly: Make the decision based
on what you’re doing right now. Can I exercise today, is a healthier food
option available. If you always aim for 5 sessions a week often you say you can
do it tomorrow then its Friday and the week is nearly over. With food;
generally breakfast and lunch are in controlled spaces (home/work) so a good
option is available. If you’re out for a work dinner/birthday you can’t control
what’s available so if a parma is the choice, then take a deep breath, choose
it and enjoy don’t guilt yourself. Your other healthy options have balanced it
out.
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Eat in moderation: Life is balance that means
good food and bad but don’t cheat day because that creates a negative approach
that’s about bribing yourself to be strict everyday so you have that big
splurge.
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